Bullying

Bullying is wrong!
Bullying exists among students, children & teens; it  is wrong!
Bullying exists among adults; it  is wrong!

Bullying defined; to use superior strength or influence to intimidate (someone), typically to force him or her or groups to do what one wants.

Social bullying by teens & adults:

Social bullying, sometimes referred to as covert bullying, is often harder to recognize and can be carried out behind the bullied person’s back. It is designed to harm someone’s social reputation and/or cause humiliation.

Social bullying includes but not limited to:
lying and spreading rumors,
negative facial or physical gestures, menacing or contemptuous looks,
playing nasty jokes to embarrass and humiliate,
mimicking unkindly,
encouraging others to socially exclude someone,
damaging someone’s social reputation or social acceptance.

Other types of bullying include but not limited to: Physical bullying, Verbal bullying, & Cyber bullying.

It’s time everyone stands up to the bullies in every area of your life, those who think they should have everything their own way, manipulate people & manipulate what others see as good when it’s part of their little or major schemes, as well as trying to control everyone and everything to achieve their Personal goals.

People are bullied in every venue of life. Unfortunately most get away with it because no one is willing to stand up to the bullies. If you don’t, they will take over. They will not only continue bullying you, they will add others to their list. When you do nothing, you are part of the problem.

When bullies don’t succeed in their demands on you watch their childish ways, how they become angered, walk out or walk away, sulk, or turn things around til you look like you’re bullying them or causing a problem.

Stand up people! Stand up to the bullies in your schools, workplace, communities, etc.

Let the control, fear, & manipulation from bullies end with you!
Stand up, stand firm, stand united with others, laugh at their behavior tactics, tell them no, and be the voice that says enough is enough!
If you’re seeing or experiencing it, so are others.

If you do not stand up for what’s right, take a stand against wrong, you are not part of the solution.

The bullying will not end.

We are suppose to live in a democracy. When you allow others to control you, that’s dictatorship. If they anger you, they control you.  Some control people with fear, taunting, their gifts and finances. You have to realize if someone continues to give gifts or money to you or your cause, that’s their means to an end. It’s for your alliance, not because they’re wanting to give what they have away.  When you say no, their gifts will flow in another direction,  Test the waters.

Children & teens should be able to go to school and be in their homes with it as their safe haven.
Adults should not fear going to work, going home, or wonder what is going to happen next in their community.

Maniiukation & Control are key traits of bullies.  They will withdraw when you and others stand up to them. They may withdraw for a short time or permanently. Don’t let your guard down.They sometimes return when they find others they can manipulate and control; thus bully!

Bullying continues or ends with you being a responsible individual who one doesn’t stand by to watch or support it. YOU must be willing to stand firm with others to report it to the proper authorities and share what they’re doing with those enabling them. Be responsible. Take positive action. Help be a solution and not be an enabler or part of the problem by ignoring or watching this negative behavior!

 

 

 

 

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